Life unpuzzles...........❤️

वो धागा  कितनी यादें  मीठी प्यारी  कोई मोल नहीं कभी न खत्म होने वाला प्यार  हर पूजा में ईश्वर से मांगती दुआ  जहाँ भी रहे भाई मेरा, खुश सलामत रहे एक ज़िंदगी हमने है बिताई साथ  सब कुछ बांटा, खिलौने, चॉक्लेट, डाँट खेलना रूठना पढ़ना एक साथ और फिर मीठी सी एक कट्टी  जैसे युद्ध में विराम की घोषणा और फिर मान जाना  छोटे भाई लाडले होते  उनके स्कूल के काम भी हम कर देते बड़े देते हमें छाँव पिता की उम्र का फर्क नहीं होता ज़्यादा  फिर भी ध्यान रखते बहुत ज़्यादा  माँ का कौन है लाडला  और इस बात पे इतराना  अरे तेरी शक्ल तो माँ से मिलती दादू नानू की गोदी का बटवारा दादी नानी के प्यार के हिस्सेदार  पापा ने किसके लिए लाया खिलौना बुआ मासी काका काकी से बना परिवार हर एक ज़िद थी बस प्यार एक दूजे को डाँट से बचाना मिल के कई प्लान बनाना खेल में खुद जीतो तो जश्न मनाना और वो जीते तो रौंद कर जाना कैरम, शतरंज बिज़नेस  क्रिकेट, फुटबॉल, बैडमिंटन  सब खेले लड़ते झगड़ते प्यार से एक ज़िंदगी जी हमने साथ सोचा ये दोस्ती हैं उम्र भर की  फिर हम बड़े हु...

I saw the developed countries struggling. I prayed it never reached mine. My fear, anxiety increased with increasing numbers. I prayed it never reached my neighborhood. And I'm praying it never reaches to my family and my loved ones. The invisible virus that made the world to a halt. When we screamed Happy New Year, who thought it's terrible 2020. Every heart wishing now, it ends in a fraction of seconds with no more bad news.  And again the same life with no masks, no sanitizers, no more hospitals, smiles, laughters, gatherings, vacation, travel and the happy list goes on......  Viruses, bacteria, microbes, pathogens, diseases, antibiotics; were not new words. A new born is welcomed with a vaccine and long list in vaccination card.  But now it was something new. Trains, airplanes, travel, offices, schools, colleges, temples were all closed except essential services and hospitals.  For the first time humans were locked. The life style had to change. Time demande...

Always in life search for that ray of hope that ignites your mind with positive vibrations. Save your energy. Protect yourself. Say No to Toxicity.     An inspiration from ray of sunshine  Keep your face to that sunshine !! Where to get this sunshine ? Have you ever came across such  rare connections   ,  Positive Energy that exist between people. Connect, Inspire & Support !! These are Rare Beautiful Hearts  They don't judge nor they peep into your life.  Their heart listens unsaid words and we heal.  The warm smile comforts us.  Without knowing our hurt they guide us.  They are Angels much needed in this world.  They imbibe our darkness give us their light and We are ready for the next struggle of life......... They don't fight our wars, They don't ease our difficulties. That's our path who else can walk ? They just give us our strength back to make us stand in our journey. They fill us with confid...

Blue for a boy, pink for a girl; Barbie for a girl and Gun for a boy. We start, we build and we live  Prejudice is a learned trait !! As Gloria Stienem says, "We've begun to raise daughter more like sons, but few have the courage to raise our sons more like daughters." Can mindsets change ?? For every girl who is tired of acting weak when she is strong, there is a boy tired of appearing strong when he feels vulnerable.  For every boy who is burdened with the constant expectation of knowing everything, there is a girl tired of people not trusting her intelligence.  For every girl who is tired of being called over sensitive there is a boy who fears to be gentle.  Yes boys too face the gender bias.  Let's stand up against all stereotypes  Let's loudly say to society  Appreciate, Respect and Promote Human Values How to break the ice ? It all starts from home from our mindsets  Stop defining each other  Start defining yourself  Me...

Breaking the stereotypes in world is HARD Standing up against at your own home is TOUGHEST !! Be that tough one .......!! Hey girls.....  They will give you education  Education that helps you to be financially independent  But they manage your finances, math ki smaj kuch kam hai   For every decision you need their will, duniya ki smaj abi nhi Right from what to say to what to wear, you need a permission Lucky you are and your karma if they allow you  They make you learn patience, adjustments and silence !! They make you believe You always need a support !! It’s easy for patriarchy to flourish  As we accept our second citizenship with silence  We learn we are good at household chores But dumb in decision making...... Happy we are when we see that consent  Do that education we got was only for an earning ? Do really God differentiated ? Are we really a weak gender....... The pain I go through when I brought life..... Leaving my relations, Star...

Easy or tough what's the difference? Perhaps where I succeeded seems easy and the one I failed was tough.  Is life simple or we make it complex   It's a myth life is simple.  And its untrue it's complex. Life is an adventure ups and downs make it happening...... Laugh a loud; cry with scream; love truly; work honestly; live every emotion and make life worth. In the end when it's time to say Good bye and HE asks   Did you lived life my dear  The only answer YES  When life give us choices, what will I choose ?   My comfort zone.   Do we get everything in our comfort zone?    NO And that's good too  Life makes us our BETTER VERSION   After the storms comes the rainbow  So be patient in the storm and focus on the sunshine after !! I was a good hardworking student. At our age we hardly knew the word stress, we lived our joyful lives away from technology....

Journey of Being Failed  Being an academician having doctorate gold medallist cleared the qualifying entrance examination in one go, having research publications books, lovable teacher perhaps a role model.  But do I ever failed ??    Yes many times either in academics or in life.  Did I break down ? Yes I lost I cried and I suffered . And I screamed loud Oh God What was my fault !!    After all I had tried my best but still couldn’t reach my expectations my destination. Is this definition of being failed.